The invitation to the christening is on the table, the joy is immense — and then comes the question: What do you give as a christening gift if you're not a godparent? You're invited as a friend of the family, you want to bring something special, but not go overboard. Many people know this feeling, and there are plenty of good suggestions.
Is it acceptable for a friend to give a gift for a christening?
Short answer: Yes, absolutely. A christening gift from friends is not only permitted, but welcome. A christening is a celebration to which the family extends a conscious invitation—and those who are invited are also welcome to give a gift. It's no longer the case that only godparents and grandparents present something lasting. Friends of the family, in particular, show their affection for the child with a thoughtful gift.
The difference: While godparents traditionally give a christening spoon or necklace, and grandparents often present the large heirlooms , you, as a friend, have a charming advantage—you can choose more freely. No protocol, no expectations. Just a sincere gesture.
The best christening gifts from friends
A good christening gift for a friend hits the sweet spot: meaningful, but not too intimate; personal, but not intrusive. Here are four ideas that achieve just that.
Silver baby rattles
A baby rattle made of 925 sterling silver is practical, safe, and beautiful all at once. The child can grasp it, the parents can place it on a shelf—and in twenty years, it will still remind them of that special day. Our handcrafted baby rattles are nickel-free and hypoallergenic, making them suitable even for the youngest children. As a friend, you'll strike just the right note: precious, but not ostentatious.
Picture frame for the first photo
A silver picture frame for the first christening photo is one of the most heartfelt gifts you can give. The parents will frame the photo, display it, and be reminded every time they see it who was there. It's a gift that won't disappear into a cupboard, but will stand proudly in the living room. In our baby picture frame collection, you'll find handcrafted frames in various sizes—perfect as a christening gift from friends.
Baby gift sets
Want to play it safe? Then a curated gift set is the perfect choice. Our baby gift sets combine several silver items in elegant packaging—making your gift appear thoughtful and generous without any extra effort on your part. Ideal if you're attending a christening for the first time and aren't sure what's appropriate.
Silver spoon with engraving
Yes, even as a friend you can give this classic gift. An engraved silver spoon isn't just for godparents. Especially if you have a personal connection to the child—perhaps you're the father's best friend or the mother's closest friend—an engraved spoon is a meaningful gesture. The child's name and christening date make it extra special.
What to give as a christening gift — the right setting
The question about budget is valid. Our christening gifts made of 925 sterling silver range from €115 to €500—a wide range that gives you flexibility. For an individual friend, a good christening gift often costs between €100 and €200. If you pool your resources as a group of friends, you can give something more substantial without it becoming too expensive for anyone.
A tip: Include a handwritten card. It doesn't need to be long; two or three sentences are enough. Something like: "For your journey through life—from your friends who are looking forward to everything that's to come." This will turn a nice gift into an unforgettable one.
Engraving — a nice gesture, even from friends
An engraving transforms any silver gift into something truly unique. The child's first name, the christening date, or a short message—this isn't just for godparents and relatives. An engraving from friends is especially heartfelt because it shows you've put thought into it. With us, you can specify the engraving directly when ordering; it will be done by hand in our manufacturers' workshop.
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Material: 925 Sterling Silver — nickel-free & hypoallergenic
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Frequently Asked Questions
Is it appropriate for a friend to give a gift for a christening?
Yes, absolutely. A christening gift from friends is a lovely gesture of appreciation. It doesn't have to be as big as a godparent's gift, but it should be personal and thoughtfully chosen.
How much should a friend spend on a christening gift?
As a friend of the family, a budget of between 30 and 80 euros is typical. More important than the amount is the gesture. A small silver gift with an engraving shows more thoughtfulness than an expensive gift certificate.
What christening gifts are particularly suitable from friends?
Especially popular are silver baby rattles, small picture frames for the first photo, or a baby spoon with an engraving. These gifts are personal, stylish, and will last as keepsakes.