Christening gifts for boys and girls — silver gifts that last a lifetime

The christening is coming up, and you're looking for the perfect gift. But even the first question arises: christening gift for a boy or a girl? Filtering by gender in online shops, choosing pink or blue, firefighter or princess – that's how it works with clothes and toys. But with a gift made of 925 sterling silver, the answer is surprisingly different: quality knows no gender. And that's precisely the strength of a silver christening gift.

This article explains why the question "boy or girl?" is less relevant than you might think when it comes to silver—but still shouldn't be ignored. You'll get an honest overview of our actual shop designs, specific prices, and a clear recommendation if you're unsure.

Why the question "Boy or girl?" works differently with silver

With clothes, it's clear: sizes change every few months, colors follow trends, and what fits today will be in the closet tomorrow. It's the same with toys—the digger will eventually become boring, the doll will end up in a box. Both gifts have an expiration date.

A baby spoon made of 925 sterling silver works differently. It's not discarded after six months. It accompanies the child through their first meal, through childhood, throughout their entire life. Many families pass it on to the next generation. And that's precisely why the question of gender is different here: You're not choosing for today's baby—you're choosing for tomorrow's person.

925 sterling silver has no color that goes out of style. No pink that will embarrass a teenager. No blue that a grown woman will no longer like. Silver is timeless, and the engraving with the child's name makes it personal—completely without gender associations.

Our motives: What suits whom?

Nevertheless, it would be dishonest to say that designs are completely interchangeable. Some designs appeal to specific preferences—not because silver has a gender, but because parents and godparents often want to express a connection to the child. Here is an honest overview of our actual shop designs:

Motives for everyone — gender-neutral

The largest group in our range. These designs work for every child, without you having to think twice:

• Zodiac signs (all 12 designs) — every child has their own sign, regardless of gender. Zodiac sign spoons from €199.95
• Teddy bear — the classic among children's motifs, loved by all
• Frog — cheerful, playful, a likeable character
• Duck — a timeless baby motif for generations
• Butterfly — symbol of transformation and new life
• Elephant — symbolizes strength, memory, and family ties

Classic neutral motifs — with special meaning

For all those looking for a motif with Christian or universal symbolism for a baptism:

• Angels — protection and divine assistance, probably the most popular baptismal motif of all.
• Cross — Christian symbol of baptism, timeless and clear
• Heart — a universal symbol of love, suitable for every child
• Star — orientation, hope, light on life's journey

Themes that appeal more to boys

These designs are frequently chosen for boys in our shop — although of course there is no hard and fast rule:

• Horse — strength, freedom, adventure
• Car — popular with little explorers
• Puppy — the loyal companion
• Firefighters — Courage and willingness to help

You can find these and other designs in our collection Gifts for Boys made of 925 silver (23 products).

Themes that appeal more to girls

Here too, the following applies: These are trends, not rules. Many parents consciously choose to go against the grain — and that's fantastic.

• Doll — a familiar, childlike motif
• Princess — for little queens (also available as a separate collection )
• Swan — Grace and elegance
• Cat — gentle, independent, popular

You can find the perfect selection in our collection of gifts for girls made of 925 silver (23 products).

DoDo and Niello: Two collections that make gender irrelevant.

The DoDo collection: Color instead of gender

The DoDo collection elegantly resolves the gender issue: through color and encouragement, rather than pink and blue. Each DoDo spoon is crafted from 925 sterling silver and finished with colored enamel—in shades like green, yellow, red, and blue that don't assign gender but appeal to the senses.

What's special about DoDo spoons: They're not just beautiful, they promote early childhood development on three levels:

• Sight: High-contrast enamel dots on the handle that attract babies' eyes.
• Grasping: Raised relief points on both sides train fine motor skills
• Taste: Gentle curves in the spoon's bowl promote oral perception.

A DoDo spoon is a gift that says: I don't care if it's a boy or a girl—what matters to me is that this child develops well. Baby spoons from the DoDo collection start at €179.95 , with many models priced between €189.95 and €199.95 .

Niello and SevChern: Completely gender-neutral

If you're looking for a christening gift that transcends gender, our spoons in niello technique are the answer. The color scheme—silver and black—is inherently gender-neutral. The dark niello alloy is meticulously applied by hand in over 15 steps, creating engraved ornaments and a distinctive contrast to the bright silver.

This technique is hardly practiced in Europe anymore. A niello spoon for baptism is therefore not only gender-neutral, but also something special – a piece of silver art that cannot be found in any department store.

Christening gift sets: If you would like to give more than one spoon

For godparents, grandparents, or close family friends who would like to give something more substantial, our christening gift sets are ideal. A set completes the gift—and here, too, most sets are gender-neutral.

Whether you're looking for a christening gift for a boy or a girl, a set made of 925 sterling silver is always a good choice. The quality is identical, the craftsmanship is identical, and so is the joy of unwrapping it.

Engraving and silver verse card: This is how you personalize your christening gift.

The most powerful personalization for a christening gift isn't the choice of color—it's the engraving . The child's name, the christening date, a short blessing, or the godparent's name: this transforms a silver spoon into a heirloom belonging only to that one child.

The most popular engravings for christening gifts:

• Child's first name
• Baptism date
• A Bible verse or blessing
• Name of godparent

All options regarding fonts, positions and the ordering process can be found on our engraving service page .

Our recommendation: When in doubt, use gender-neutral language.

If you are unsure whether to choose a christening gift for a boy or a girl — and especially if you want to choose something before the birth — then the recommendation is clear: Choose gender-neutral.

This is not a compromise. It is the better decision. Because:

• The child will not perceive the spoon as a "boy's spoon" or a "girl's spoon" — it will know it as its own spoon.
• Engraving with your own name is more personal than any choice of color.
• A zodiac sign motif or an angel remains appropriate for a lifetime — a car or a doll perhaps not.
• Gender-neutral gifts are also suitable if the gender is not yet known.

Silver ages gracefully. It even becomes more beautiful with age—through the patina that forms and reveals the spoon's history. A good christening gift does the same: it grows with the child, instead of putting them in a drawer.

Frequently asked questions about christening gifts for boys and girls

What do you give a boy for his christening?
For boys, godparents and grandparents often choose a baby spoon with motifs such as a horse, car, puppy, or teddy bear. Zodiac sign spoons (€199.95) are also particularly popular, as they can be individually tailored to the child. In our collection of gifts for boys, you'll find 23 products made of 925 sterling silver. Our tip: An angel or cross motif is equally suitable—and will accompany the boy even into adulthood.

What do you give a girl for her christening?
Popular motifs for girls include swans, cats, princesses, and butterflies. However, gender-neutral motifs such as angels, hearts, and zodiac signs are chosen just as frequently. Our collection of gifts for girls features 23 products. Baby spoons start at €179.95, and christening gift sets start at €199.95.

Are silver gifts equally suitable for boys and girls?
Yes, and that's one of the great advantages of 925 sterling silver as a christening gift. Silver has no gender-specific color—it's timelessly neutral. The workmanship, the quality, and the antibacterial properties are identical. The only difference lies in the design, and even there, over 60% of our designs are gender-neutral. A silver spoon is a gift to the person, not to their gender.

What is a traditional christening gift?
The most traditional christening gift of all is the silver spoon . This tradition dates back to the 15th century: In England, godparents gave so-called Apostle Spoons, and in Russia, a silver spoon is still given "На зубок" (for the first tooth). In Germany, the engraved christening spoon from the godparent is a firmly established custom. Other traditional christening gifts include silver cups, engraved gifts from godparents, and religious silver pendants.

What designs are suitable for christening gifts?
The most popular motifs for christening gifts can be divided into three groups: Christian motifs (angel, cross, dove), animal motifs (teddy bear, duck, elephant, frog, butterfly), and zodiac signs (all 12 signs of the zodiac). Christian motifs emphasize the occasion of the christening, animal motifs appeal to children's joy, and zodiac signs personalize the gift. All three groups are gender-neutral. At SilberKosmos, you'll also find motifs like horses, cars, or princesses for more specific requests.